1st day into the year and I learned a new lesson already? slow down 2008, slow down.

you can't help the way you feel about someone, but you can help what you do with those feelings. if it's evident that acting on those feelings will result in someone getting hurt, then it's best not to act upon those feelings at all.
I think it's better to get hurt yourself, than to hurt someone else. unless you're really selfish?....